I have a theory that, in general, human beings have a constant of gifts. Beauty, intelligence, charisma, memory are balancing. The linking much of a thing too often do not bind another.
However, there is fortunate few that capture many virtues, and there are others that Nature has no mercy.
Such is the case of my friend Susan. The poor thing is petite, plump, with prominent teeth frankly, groomed as the jack of clubs and as if that were not reached, it was endowed with many neurons. My daughter, with absolute cruelty, nicknamed "The Border" (because he lives far away, and at the border. Or what were they thinking?).
back to my theory, although not linked in other ways too, has self-esteem through the roof. According to her, every man in the office building rendered fall at his feet, and is easy to see running around the corridors behind a centaur, who flees in terror.
Last week it was the turn to a man the 8 th floor. After chasing a few days and was planted on two occasions, he said: "Ultimately, I will stay only with my husband. It alone is worth it! ".
And this led me to think about the dynamics of couples.
I think every couple has, either implicitly or explicitly, standards that make their operation. And there are no rules that serve to everyone.
For example, I have some friends I call the "symbiotic" (a psychoanalyst would call "co-dependent"). They do nothing alone. If you must go to the hairdresser, go two. If someone has to draw blood, take it both. If she has to go downtown, he takes. And they work (so much so that 29 years they are together).
Another friend has a boyfriend who is married. I say that is most common in the world, but no.
Both women are known, he takes his daughter to stay with his lover, and often when he goes home from my friend phoned to tell his wife to keep a dinner with "the other." And they work.
I believe that each set complete freedom in how it will be your partner, monogamy, swingers, trios or quartets, as long as both sides agree.
However, even at the risk they take as a moralizing, I hate when someone changes the rules unilaterally.
That is, if I establish a relationship in which everyone has the freedom to be when you want or leave and / or sleep with others if the opportunity arises and then share the experience perfect.
But if I establish a relationship "classic" based on loyalty, should not cheat on my partner.
I firmly believe that the couple is a place where there is no lying. Where, even if they have spoken explĂcitamente, sabemos cuáles son las reglas. Y donde esas reglas no se rompen.
However, there is fortunate few that capture many virtues, and there are others that Nature has no mercy.
Such is the case of my friend Susan. The poor thing is petite, plump, with prominent teeth frankly, groomed as the jack of clubs and as if that were not reached, it was endowed with many neurons. My daughter, with absolute cruelty, nicknamed "The Border" (because he lives far away, and at the border. Or what were they thinking?).
back to my theory, although not linked in other ways too, has self-esteem through the roof. According to her, every man in the office building rendered fall at his feet, and is easy to see running around the corridors behind a centaur, who flees in terror.
Last week it was the turn to a man the 8 th floor. After chasing a few days and was planted on two occasions, he said: "Ultimately, I will stay only with my husband. It alone is worth it! ".
And this led me to think about the dynamics of couples.
I think every couple has, either implicitly or explicitly, standards that make their operation. And there are no rules that serve to everyone.
For example, I have some friends I call the "symbiotic" (a psychoanalyst would call "co-dependent"). They do nothing alone. If you must go to the hairdresser, go two. If someone has to draw blood, take it both. If she has to go downtown, he takes. And they work (so much so that 29 years they are together).
Another friend has a boyfriend who is married. I say that is most common in the world, but no.
Both women are known, he takes his daughter to stay with his lover, and often when he goes home from my friend phoned to tell his wife to keep a dinner with "the other." And they work.
I believe that each set complete freedom in how it will be your partner, monogamy, swingers, trios or quartets, as long as both sides agree.
However, even at the risk they take as a moralizing, I hate when someone changes the rules unilaterally.
That is, if I establish a relationship in which everyone has the freedom to be when you want or leave and / or sleep with others if the opportunity arises and then share the experience perfect.
But if I establish a relationship "classic" based on loyalty, should not cheat on my partner.
I firmly believe that the couple is a place where there is no lying. Where, even if they have spoken explĂcitamente, sabemos cuáles son las reglas. Y donde esas reglas no se rompen.
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